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You Don't have to have it all figured out.

Hey Peace Seeker!

Here’s the thing, you don’t have to have it all figured out right now. You don’t have to know everything, or every little detail. You don’t have to be perfect… in reality, the truth is there is NO perfection. It doesn’t exist! All of life ebbs and flows, all of life has seasons of growth, expansion, rebirth, and transition. plants, trees, caterpillars to butterflies. The moons cycles, and the tides, nature shows us the ebbs and flows. And we are all ONE with nature, it is part of us and we are part of it!  

You don’t have to have it all figured out. Every moment one from the other is unknown. All we have really is NOW. 

I have been finding myself lately in the wild energies of our planet and in my own healing journey, in massive transition…and realizing when I am not in present in the moment. Thinking about the past and reliving old stories that do not serve me.  Inner monologue like WOAH: " I’m not driving my car in reverse am I?? And I sure as F*ck don’t want to keep going in circles…. I want to move FORWARD!" 

Awareness is key here, and feeling into where you are and what is going on within your mind… those thoughts and feelings are signals for you on your path…. Where are they taking you??  If you don’t like where you are going, mindful awareness will help you to recognize what needs to shift or heal, and bring you back into a space of peace within your heart. 

I am in the drivers seat…. So are you! You get to choose. 

Do you want keep reliving the old stories of your past and staying in cycles and loops getting nowhere.. or do you want to drive forward to a new destination? 

Any road we take, any path we choose… at the end of the day is fully unknown to us. We never REALLY know what is in store. We can have ideas and plans, and take actions on those ideas and plans, but at the end of the day… the universe is going to show us through law of attraction where we are at,  and having the awareness of what we need to heal and shift will allow us to move forward. You don’t have to have it all figured out! 

Part of the process is discovering, exploring, learning, growing, and embracing every part of the journey, by staying present. 

The last few weeks in particular for me I have been in a major healing phase. I have been on my awakened and awakening path spiritually, emotionally, and physically since I was in high school ( I’m currently 33!)..… and let me tell you… every major milestone, is when I’ve had a major desire and thought I had a plan… but I released the strong hold, left it up to faith in surrender, and the outcome was better than I could have ever imagined. Faith means different things to different people, but to me faith means a belief in something greater than myself, guiding me supporting me, opening up doors for me, and loving me unconditionally through every moment of my path.  When you let go, and stay present, the magic happens! 

We never truly know what is ahead of us. We can try to control the outcomes, and hold on to expectations.. I am right there with you, I get it. Sometimes it’s easier said than done, but it is a CONSTANT PRACTICE TO BE PRESENT!

You don’t have to have it all figured out ;-) 

I realized within myself the last few days even… holding on to outcomes and expectations and waves of worry and frenzy and overwhelm and ALLLL these things that are truly not real!

They were just stress stories showing up for me to teach me lessons of deeper levels of self awareness and understanding, deeper levels of discovering and healing (ahh relief!) and honoring exactly where I am in the NOW. Respecting where I am now. Valuing where I am now. LOVING the person I am NOW and everything about my current existence with tremendous gratitude. 


You may find yourself getting caught up in expectations, and attaching to outcomes, and holding on with a tight grip to the future and these things that you want SOOO FUCKING BADDDD….and it backfires because the energy behind that is not one of EASE AND ALIGNMENT.. and the Universe only answers you in in yes through Law of Attraction! 

You have to truly let it go! You have to fully surrender! You have to live in THE PRESENT with more joy and peace. It is a constant practice to connect within ourselves, feel our hearts, embrace extra gratitude for wherever we are in the NOW. 

And when you take that time to center in and be present, your energy and vibration will shift. You will know in your heart that you are exactly where you are supposed to be… you will know that everything is always working out for you. 

All is well.